Depending on your sexual experiences, you may have noticed that different people have different approaches to great sex. Some people lead with their heads, some lead with their hearts, and some lead with their bodies.
Why is this important? Because if your lover and you have different basic pathways into the lovemaking process, it may be more difficult to connect the way you prefer to. And, if you know your pathway and your lover’s pathway into lovemaking, you can avoid unnecessary friction and uncertainty, and move together toward ecstasy.
Keep it simple. Think about whether you get into sex mentally, physically, or emotionally. Of course, it’s all three, but what happens first for you? Knowing this can get your motor running faster and better. Same for your partner – this is information you should share and enjoy playing with. Start the conversation, and what you learn will make your lovemaking better.