Great sex depends on great touching, but the challenge is that everyone defines this differently. For example, my lovely wife loves teasing, feather-light touches mixed with firm squeezes, while I prefer broad strokes and rubbing.
If I use my own strategy on my lover, she may think that the massage feels good and relaxing, but not arousing, while if she uses her strategy on me, I may feel like being teased is irritating and distracting.
Fortunately, we compared notes and found the formula that works better for both of us. Don’t trust to luck – discover how to touch your lover by trying lots of ways to touch and deciding together which ones feel best and when. It will be like your own personal directions to ecstasy!
Communicate! It will lead to great sex!